Play in Sync.
Negotiate scenes, find partners, and play safer — privately.
Negotiate tonight's scene with the partner you already have — send them a private link and walk through limits, desires, and aftercare together. They don't even need an account. Then, when you're ready, find new partners at kink-friendly events.
No sign-up to start — build a scene card and print it in minutes. Ready to save & share? Create a free account →
Negotiate. Match. Stay safe and informed.
Everything KinkSync does ladders up to these three.
Consent is hot. Awkward isn't.
The guided wizard walks you and your partner through limits, desires, and aftercare — together, from your own phones. Send a private link; no account needed on their end. It works tonight, with the partner you already have.
Find your people.
Browse public events, post scene cards, and see who's looking for what — then express interest and connect with partners who match your energy.
Know who you're playing with.
FetLife-linked identities, community vetting, and a safe-scene history built from partner feedback — private and aggregate. Every record is locked down at the database level: no public profiles, no public scores, no drama.
A record that speaks for you.
Every scene your partners report as safe adds to a private history — and partners quietly flag the traits you're known for. Skip the call-out threads, the screenshot drama, and the whisper networks: this is the reputation you earn over time, kept private and shown only to the people you choose.
- A record that grows: every completed scene your partner confirms is added to your history — their word, on the record, not just your claim.
- Traits you're known for: partners flag things like respecting limits and aftercare. Earned from real scenes — badges, not a number to game.
- Private by default: aggregate and anonymous, locked behind row-level security. No public scores, no shaming — you choose who sees it.
KinkSync doesn't decide who's safe — you do. We hand you the vetting, the history, and a clear way to negotiate your limits, and trust you to make your own call.
From First Idea to Aftercare
KinkSync isn't social media — it's a tool. Three steps:
Build a scene card
Spell out the scene you have in mind, guided step by step. Start solo in minutes — no account needed — and print it or save a PDF to take with you.
Negotiate together
Send your partner a private link and walk through limits, desires, and aftercare from your own phones. They don't need an account to answer.
Play with confidence
FetLife-based vetting and private, post-scene feedback keep the community accountable — real safety signal, no public drama.
How far you want to go
It's all free. Start anonymous, make an account when you want to save and share, and get vetted to unlock the full community.
| Feature | Anonymous No account | Member Free account | Vetted Free · community-trusted |
|---|---|---|---|
| Scene negotiation | |||
| Plan a scene + print / save as PDF | Included | Included | Included |
| Save & reuse scene cards | Not included | Included | Included |
| Negotiate live with a partner (they need no account) | Not included | Included | Included |
| Partner matching & events | |||
| Community newsfeed | Included | Included | Included |
| Browse public events | Included | Included | Included |
| Browse & express interest in others' scenes | Not included | Included | Included |
| Post scene requests at events | Not included | Not included | Included |
| Create & host events | Not included | Not included | Included |
| Safety & history | |||
| Private safe-scene history & profile | Not included | Included | Included |
| Invite & vouch for members | Not included | Not included | Included |
| Plan a scene | Create free account | How vetting works | |
Try it now — no sign-up.
The guided wizard covers everything from hard limits to aftercare, so you can focus on the scene, not the logistics. Build a scene card right now, print it or save a PDF, and only make an account when you want to save it or share it with a partner.